The way we give love to others is often indicative of the way we want to be loved ourselves.
We all give and receive love every day.
Keep a record of what you do for others to show them your love and note the reactions you receive to those actions.
As you observe the significant people in your life and their responses to the different ways, you express love to them; you will soon see how they best “hear” you.
Learning to recognize the things that make us feel loved and then identifying what the significant people in our lives need to feel loved is a beautiful self-growth adventure that will revolutionize our relationship.